Friday, January 13, 2012

The Help

I just finished reading The Help today. This work of fiction is one of the best novels I have ever read in my entire life. Like Jodi Picoult does in every one of her books I read, Katheryn Stockett made me laugh, cry and think about the issues at hand. Even though I wasn't born in Mississippi during the time this story was placed, Stockett made me feel as if I was. She is a wonderful author. I love how she was able to create such a wonderful book based on her own personal experiences.

My favorite characters are Aibileen, Minny and Miss Skeeter. These strong, powerful and resilient women inspire me. Minny reminds me of myself. I wouldn't take any shit from anybody either. The pie story with Miss Hilly was halarious. I would have definitely have gone that far as Minny did for revenge. Miss Hilly got what she deserved. Treat people like shit and you will end up eating it!
I just want to address one of the discussion questions in the back of the book. 7. Do you think that had Aibileen stayed working for Miss Elizabeth, Mae Mobley would have grown up to be racist like her mother? Do you think racism is inherent or taught? ---First off, racism is taught. I want to share a short story from when I was a child. My Mom and Laura had me attend daycare from when I was 4 until I was 12. When I was a little girl in daycare, I became friends with another little girl named Unique. We would always play in the playground together and eat our snacks together. She became my best friend real quick. It wasn't until they started talking about Martin Luther King Jr. and civil rights in daycare and kindergarten that I even realized that my best friend was African American. When we were playing and having fun, I never paid attention to her skin color, she was my friend and that's all that mattered.
I never was taught to be a racist but I can see how people can be, especially at a young age. Mae Mobley had Aibileen look after her, telling her the truth all the time. The bond between Mae Mobley and Aibileen was so strong and special that if Aibileen stayed working for Miss Elizabeth, Mae Mobley would have loved her and respected her, not showing any racism at all because of what Aibileen taught her through her stories and the things she would tell Mae Mobley.
I will finish this with my favorite quotes from the book.
"Wasn't that the point of the book? For women to realize, We are just two people. Not that much separates us. Not nearly as much as I'd thought."
"And I know she ain't saying what she want a say either and it's a strange thing happening here cause nobody saying nothing and we still managing to have us a conversation."
"Maybe I ought to keep writing, not just for the paper, but something else, about all the people I know and the things I seen and done. Maybe I ain't too old to start over..."
I am looking forward to watching the movie. I can't wait to see it.

5 comments:

  1. That was beautifully written, my love, and I quite agree!

    Racism is most definitely learned, and it often breeds out of fear and ignorance. By constituting another as a second class citizen, an animal, or something unworthy of living, it becomes easy for people to disregard the similarity which exists between us all. This form of hatred is only truly overcome when people can embrace the differences and the people themselves achieved through opening up the mind and heart to new possibilities and being exposed to those who they so freely judge. When they are put on level playing field, it will become abundantly clear they are both human, with simply a different pigment. This understanding of a shared humanity is only revealed to those who are open to it, however. It cannot be forced. Understanding is created through knowledge, something usually lacking in environments where racist attitudes run rampant. The only way to really combat racism is to reveal the truth through experience and education, and slowly chip away at the negative facade created over a lifetime.

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  2. Sorry, I'm ranting at 12 AM...never a good thing, lol!

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  3. You are wonderful my love. Thank you for your comments. I appreciate them so much. You know what they say, "ignornace is bliss" A lot of people are stuck in their own little world with their beliefs. I hope one day we can share our differences, appreciate them and learn from one another. I am tired of all the hate in this world.

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  4. By the way, just so you know, I LOVE the middle of the night rants. Especially from you! :)

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  5. <3 <3 <3 I'm tired of all the hate too! Let's form an anti-hate club!

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